Losing a child at any age of a pregnancy is a difficult thing. Losing our son at 21 weeks was
a nightmare. Without Donna and Heavens Gain I don't know how we would have gotten through it. Not only do they have great
products but they knew what we were going through because of their personal experiences. The funeral home we used had nothing
small enough for him because he was only 15oz and 9 inches long. We ordered a wood Casket and it was beautiful. Everyone
commented how much it looked like a grown-up casket only smaller. I appreciate all your help and would recommend Heavens Gain
to anyone experiencing a loss. Kim
family wants to send you a big "Thank You!" for your help in the quick shipping of the casket and especially for
the kindness you showed us and for providing the other kind notes and informational material. The casket/vault combo was perfect!
We could not have been happier! Also, the Saline/Distilled Water guidance proved to be very helpful as well. Your ministry
is so very special to folks like us in our time of need. We are letting our midwives know and anyone else about what you do
because it really helps to fill a void and eases the planning that goes with such a tragic loss. We will have to wait until
Heaven to hold her but we are thankful that the Lord has given us some answers at least.
We pray blessings on you as
you continue your ministry. It doesn't make things all better, but it does provide a certain peace and closure as a family
lays their precious child to rest.
Thank you again,
Tim and Yolanda
" We did receive the casket. It is more perfect than we had imagined it. Your website does
not do justice to your amazing ministry." William
Thank you for all of your help and support throughout
our difficult ordeal. I miscarried my triplets at 13 1/2 weeks. I was so thankful that I stumbled upon this website since
I knew we wanted to bury the remains of our 2 boys and girl. After our sudden loss, we didn't know what to do or what
our options really were. All we knew was that we wanted to have our babies laid to rest somewhere so we would know where their
remains would be and we could have a place to visit them. I can't say enough about how much my husband and I appreciated
all of the assistance, along with the immediate information & support that Heaven's Gain & Donna Murphy gave to
us. It was such a blessing during such a dismal time. We purchased the walnut casket and when it arrived, we both commented
on how beautiful it was (much more so than the urns which were all that the funeral homes seemed to have available). It gave
us a sense of closure and peace of mind knowing that our babies would be laid to rest together in their beautiful casket.
Thank you again for all your help. I learned so much from this website and would recommend Heaven's Gain to anyone I cross
paths with who may have to deal with such a difficult and painful loss.
We had the mass and burial for Genesis on Friday. Everything
was perfect. Under the circumstances, unfortunate as they are, we couldn't have been happier with the items you provided.
The remains did fit perfectly in the bottle. After saying a rosary for Genesis, Ed and I wrapped the light teal
green rosary around the bottle cover. Everything looked warm and sweet. I had gotten a dozen white roses for the church and
to put on the casket at the cemetery. Lovely addition.
Thank you so much for your help at this difficult time. I don't know what
we would have done w/ out you. We most certainly will tell others about your website should they suffer events such as this
in their lives. May God Bless you and your family.
Barbara and Ed
I wanted to call you from the funeral
last Friday. My grandson was layed to rest in the most beautiful casket anyone had seen. (Including the funeral
director). You will never know the peace you gave his parents and his family. Thank you doesn't seem adequate.
Not for all the love and prayers that I felt during the week from you; a woman I don't even know. I've shared
your story with so many people; and it is only GOD that could have brought you into my life when I needed you most.
I am forever greatful to Him for all he has done.
I am so sorry it has taken so long for me to reply back. I went through some really tough days and had
some very strong emotions. Many days I struggled to just get through, especially when my husband went back to work. It was
hard to do my usual things like take my son to school, cook, etc. I didn't feel like doing much and haven't spent
much time online. The casket arrived very quickly and was perfect. It took me a few more days to be ready to bury our
baby. Doing so really helped though. It brought a sense of closure and peace that I really needed. I will always
love and miss the sweet baby we lost. The days have slowly started to return to normal and I notice that there seem, for the
most part, to be more good days than not so good ones. I am so thankful to have found your ministry. I didn't know who
to ask the questions I had, questions no one wants to have to think about. You gave me advice, suggestions, and kindness during
the most difficult time of my life. Your products gave me a way to respect and honor my baby. Thank you for
your time, thoughts and prayers. May God bless you, your family, and your ministry.
Donna was a tremendous help to us when
we went through the horrible experience of miscarrying our baby at 15 weeks. The tiny casket was exactly what we needed
for the funeral, but more than the product itself, Donna's counsel and advice over the phone was a great encouragement
and help to us. We highly recommended Heavens Gain to anyone facing a difficult loss like we did."
I wanted to let
you know -we received Makayla and Marissa's urn this afternoon. It's beautiful and exactly
what I was hoping for. Thank you for taking the time to answer all of our questions and for always returning
our emails so promptly . Also, last but not least, thank you for your heartfelt prayers. They are
much appreciated. Your kind note brought tears to my eyes. Thank
I had to write and thank you for what you are doing. It is never easy to loose a baby,
but you have helped me know how I can deal with my sweet boy's tiny, frail body. I am so grateful to have gotten
to see him when I miscarried at 10 1/2 weeks - so grateful - but I was entirely at a loss what to do with his tiny frame.
I could not conceive of anything less than a burial, but had no idea how to go about it. An old shoe box under the tree
in the yard, while fine for a canary, seemed so inappropriate for my son. You have helped me to understand what I can do to
take the next step in healing and helping my other children find peace and closure. Thank you from the bottom of my
heart. God bless you!
You help so many and so much, I just want to thank you again for helping me and my daughter
a couple of years ago when she (my daughter) lost her third baby. The casket you provided was beautiful, the engraved
nameplate was just breath taking, your ministering to my daughter and myself and your service during that time was heaven
sent! You are doing a mighty work for God. You will never be forgotten. Thanks again.
God's Abundant Blessings
Thank you so very much for the
beautiful urn you made for our son....it is everything we expected and more. It is very comforting to us to know what
a beautiful resting place he has because of you. God bless you for what you do.